snakegay:

i think another trend to ditch is attaching MORAL significance to one’s stage of recovery. like unfortunately people on here are starting to act like hating yourself or struggling more heavily with your mental health than others makes you a bad person and like. it doesnt. what determines the kind of person you are is how you treat others, not your personal struggles

that doesnt mean its ‘okay’ to hate yourself or whatever, its a bad mindset to be in and you need to make moves to start finding value in yourself and take steps towards having a better future rather than accepting stagnancy. but it doesnt make you a bad person and youre still a valuable person who is loved regardless of your feelings towards yourself or the things youre fighting with. 

someone who hates themself is at a different stage of their recovery, and though they need to make the choice to move forward, they also need support. they arent a tool for your moral posturing to treat like a bad person and “anti recovery” for not being as healthy as you are